Online portfolios are becoming more and more necessary for
professionals, even ones in non-artistic fields. There are a lot of them
out there, so it’s important that yours stands out from all the rest.
Here are a few things to remember if you want to have a truly stunning
online portfolio.
Saturday, 29 November 2014
3 Essential Things to Achieve Success (Hard Work Is Not One of Them) by Sergi Trivino
A common adage is that you need to work harder and suffer more than anyone else if you want to achieve success.
At the most, that’s a half-truth.
From what I have learned from people who have accomplished big things in both their lives and careers, one of their most common “a-ha moments” was when they realized that working hard was not enough to succeed, and that often it was even a waste of time and energy.
Friday, 28 November 2014
7 Behaviors Most People Think Are Negative That Are Actually Healthy( by Brett Bevell)
The most healthy behavior is simply for you to be authentic. Yet often we avoid our own authentic behaviors thinking they are unhealthy ones. Your own mind and body know what you need. And if you need a reminder why it is important to follow your authentic self, look at these common behaviors which are often considered negative which can actually be healthy.
1. Anger
Anger is something many of us avoid expressing and yet it can often be very liberating. Being angry and expressing it in a healthy way can create powerful and positive change in our lives. Anger is simply a type of emotional energy that rises up in us when we have been wronged and a personal boundary has been crossed. That energy is set out on a mission to dismantle the inappropriate situation that has caused our suffering.Tuesday, 25 November 2014
If You Do These 20 Things Every Day, You’ll Become Smarter (by Jayson DeMers)
Although many people believe intelligence is limited to those with high I.Q.s, there are a number of potential methods to boost one’s cognitive abilities and become more effective at various professional and personal pursuits.
With enough motivation and determination, anyone can expand their mental capabilities and become smarter. Integrating new habits into your regular routine and providing proper stimulation can sharpen your intellect quickly and leave you inspired to take on new challenges each day. Brain health is an important key in complete physical health. The list below includes the best brain-engaging activities in daily life.
Inviting Novelty
To create new neural pathways and strengthen the brain, it’s critical for people to continually incorporate new experiences and information into their lives. At first, these moments might feel useless, but eventually, you will find yourself looking forward to quiet moments alone.10 Health Benefits of Music That You Were Never Aware Of ( by Robert Locke)
Can you imagine a civilization without music? Impossible, I would say. In addition, history shows that every culture on this planet has used music in its religion, meditation, medicine, rituals and enjoyment of life. Let us look at the actual health benefits now.
1. Music is good for your heart.
“There’s just something about music—particularly live music—that excites and activates the body.”They say that music is good for the soul, but what about the heart? There are lots of experiments which are more or less impressive on the benefits of music when treating illness.
—Joanne Loewy, Editor, Music and Medicine.
Heart patients were observed at Massachusetts General Hospital. They were recovering from heart surgery. Some patients listened to Mozart’s piano sonatas for half an hour every day. These patients were the ones who had improved heart rates and lower blood pressure compared with those who never listened to any music at all.
8 Signs of Weakening Health You Shouldn’t Ignore ( by Anthony Dejolde)
If your latest visit to your doctor gave you shivers and proved you are not healthy because you are developing a certain form of cancer, or perhaps you had a stroke, or you were shocked to have had a heart attack. Furthermore, these life threatening events will most likely motivate you to make drastic lifestyle changes.
However, you might not know that your body can give you warning signs your health is getting poorer even before you’ll get sick. It’s just that sometimes you ignore them because you’re busy working on your promotion, or plainly enjoying your life. Yes, it’s true your body’s whispers are warning messages you must hear long before you are confronted with a debilitating disease. It will whisper to catch your attention, and if you don’t respond it will start yelling.
Here are some of the signs your health may be deteriorating.
1. Your sleep has poor quality.
During night time, the stress hormone cortisol is supposed to go down to the minimum levels. This will allow your system to slow down, rest, and recharge. Insomnia patients can’t sleep at night due to cortisol levels that are abnormally revved up after sun down.Sunday, 23 November 2014
8 Ways To Stop Emotional Manipulation.. By: Siobhan Harmer
Here are 8 ways to spot and deal with it:
1. There is no use in trying to be honest with an emotional manipulator.
You make a statement and it will be turned
around. Example: I am really angry that you forgot my birthday. Response
– “It makes me feel sad that you would think I would forget your
birthday, I should have told you of the great personal stress I am
facing at the moment – but you see I didn’t want to trouble you. You are
right I should have put all this pain (don’t be surprised to see real
tears at this point) aside and focused on your birthday. Sorry.” Even as
you are hearing the words you get the creeped out sensation that they
really do NOT mean they are sorry at all – but since they’ve said the
words you’re pretty much left with nothing more to say. Either that or
you suddenly find yourself babysitting their angst!!
Under all circumstances if you feel this angle is being played –
5 Quotes From Bill Gates That Will Teach You Valuable Life Lessons ...by Dawn Hafner
Bill
Gates has accomplished more wealth and success than anyone of our
generation. But even more importantly he has worked tirelessly to
improve lives and prevent deaths through his generous charitable
contribuitons. I have left out a couple of his more well-known quotes
and instead tried to focus on those lesser known quotes. I hope you will
find that these resonate with some of your own valuable life lessons
you know to be true. Here is a healthy dose of what has made Mr. Gates
successful and things we should pay close attention to if we wish to
succeed at our own dreams and desires.
1. Focus
“The most important work I got a chance to be involved in, no matter what I do, is the personal computer. You know, that’s what I grew up in my teens, my 20s, my 30s, you know, I even knew not to get married until later because I was so obsessed with it. That’s my life’s work.”
Collection Of Motivational Quotes by Famous Personalities Part 2
I have tried 99 times
and have
failed, but
on the 100th time
came
success.
- Albert
Einstein
Our mind is the most
valuable
How to Overcome Sadness and Be Happy...By Taheerah Alam
How to Overcome Sadness and Be Happy...By Taheerah Alam
So should I be thankful for the good clothes I wear or the Gucci bag I carry? Maybe the good food I can eat? Oh wait, what about the opportunity to study at a reputable university or being employed at a good company? Hey, did I mention my caring and wonderful parents or my cool siblings who are my best friends? Hold on, I completely forgot about the blessing of Islam in my life; How Allah guided my heart to His path! AlhamdulilLah (praise be to God).
Tired of counting already?!
No wonder Allah said in the Qur’an that if we were to count the favors of Allah, we will not do justice to even one favor! (14:34)
Yes, we are all struggling with something and I feel ya, my brother/sister in Islam. Maybe it’s been months and you are still looking for a decent job. Maybe you are a single brother/sister struggling to fight off temptations while there seems to be no progress in the ‘marriage’ part of your life and you are tired of searching for that ‘right’ person. Maybe you have been trying for years and still with no success in conceiving a baby. It could be anything. Anything that makes you feel that sense of unhappiness and dissatisfaction. A gap between what you desire to happen and what is happening in reality. And I feel your pain and I will never underestimate it.
But brothers and sisters, I request you all to take concrete steps to change your situation. Do something about it right now! You know how?
Working Within My Circle of Influence...By Khadija Amaan
Working Within My Circle of Influence...By Khadija Amaan
I learned this after moving to this new city. The first couple of weeks were great, but right after that, my husband would come home upset. We had relocated, thinking that he had found the perfect job. However, in a couple of weeks, we were devastated. He began hating his job. He complained about his boss. He did not like the work. But here we were, and still are, bound by a long-term contract with the company.
With Hardship Comes Ease: Embracing Discomfort... By Ismail Shaikh
With Hardship Comes Ease: Embracing Discomfort... By Ismail Shaikh
I cried after my first interview. It was June of 2011 and I had finally landed an interview after frantically sending out applications to prospective employers. Job-hunting had been a stressful experience as I began to feel increasingly desperate under both family and financial pressure. So when I received a call to interview on short-term notice, I happily obliged.
Without much time to prepare, I went into the interview feeling very anxious. It was a panel interview and for the first time I experienced what it was like to be “grilled” by management. The short of the long of it – it was a poor interview and the program manager scoffed at my level of preparation. I exited that interview feeling relieved it was over but terribly sad, embarrassed, and fruitlessly hopeless. Still, I adhered to interview protocol and sent a thank-you email to management, sincerely explaining to them what had happened.
Allah, the Most Exalted, is the Best of Planners.
The Pursuit of Happiness..By Jinan Bastaki
The Pursuit of Happiness..By Jinan Bastaki
I was recently asked to give a talk entitled, “The Pursuit of Happiness.” I had a lot to say about the topic, and unfortunately was not able to deliver all of it. This topic is really important in general, but especially in this day and age where we find many people suffering from depression/melancholy at some point in their life. What is Happiness?
Most Americans are familiar with the phrase “life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”—rights enshrined in the U.S. Declaration of Independence. But in order to talk about the pursuit of happiness, we need to know what happiness is.
Emotional demons (source: Suhaibwebb)
Emotional demons
You’re alone, except for a pack of scary demons hiding below the deck. As long as you keep floating around on the open sea, they stay below deck and you feel okay—for the most part. Except for that nagging feeling that there are frightening creatures just out of sight.
When you decide you’ve had enough of floating around and turn the tiller to head toward shore, the demons come rushing up from below, gnashing their teeth and waving their razor-sharp claws at you.
“You have to stay out on the open sea!” they roar at you. “We’re going to slice you up with our razor-sharp claws if you don’t turn away from the shore!”
Seeing the World in a Different Way !!! By: Jinan Bastaki
Seeing the World in a Different Way !!! By: Jinan Bastaki
There are some people who are always able to see the positives in a
situation. Even when they get knocked down, they manage to get right
back up again. They are able to do things with a wonderful spirit. The
American inventor, Thomas Edison, once said, “I have not failed. I’ve
just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.”
What makes some people more able to be positive, determined, and in a general state of contentment and happiness than others? There are, of course, many reasons. One major reason is often the way we view the world. According to Shawn Achor, author of The Happiness Advantage and Before Happiness, this perception of reality is the precursor to happiness (or lack thereof).
What makes some people more able to be positive, determined, and in a general state of contentment and happiness than others? There are, of course, many reasons. One major reason is often the way we view the world. According to Shawn Achor, author of The Happiness Advantage and Before Happiness, this perception of reality is the precursor to happiness (or lack thereof).
The Only Shelter in the Storm (By:Yasmin Mogahed)
The Only Shelter in the Storm (By:Yasmin Mogahed)
It’s never easy to stand when the storm hits. As soon as it starts
raining, lightning shortly follows. Dark clouds replace the sun and all
you can see are the waves of an ocean, once calm, surrounding you. No
longer able to find your way, you reach out for help.
You begin by calling the coast guard. No reply. You try again to redirect the boat. No use. You look for the lifeboat. It’s gone. You reach for a life jacket. Torn. Finally after you’ve exhausted every means, you turn your face upward.
And ask God.
But there’s something completely unique about this moment. At this instant, you experience something you otherwise could only theorize about: true tawheed. Oneness. See, on shore, you may have called on God. But you called on Him along with so many others. You may have depended on God. But you depended on Him along with so many other handholds. But for this singular moment, everything else is closed. Everything. There is nothing left to call on. Nothing left to depend on. But Him.
But there’s something completely unique about this moment. At this instant, you experience something you otherwise could only theorize about: true tawheed. Oneness. See, on shore, you may have called on God. But you called on Him along with so many others. You may have depended on God. But you depended on Him along with so many other handholds. But for this singular moment, everything else is closed. Everything. There is nothing left to call on. Nothing left to depend on. But Him.
And that’s the point.
Put Your Best Face Forward... By:Lobna Mulla
Put Your Best Face Forward
Lobna Mulla
The Power of Remembrance (By: Reehab Ramadan)
The Power of Remembrance (By: Reehab Ramadan)
There is a feeling that comes to the heart, a feeling of unrest. No matter what is done that feeling of unrest doesn’t leave. Sometimes we try and numb it with entertainment or by distracting ourselves, but again it returns. And it is after this constant return of this feeling of unrest that we may finally remember the ayah (verse), “Verily in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest!” (Qur’an 13:28)
Falling Apart? 4 Ways to Get Yourself Back Together, By Bobbi Emel
Falling Apart?
Falling Apart? 4 Ways to Get Yourself Back Together
By Bobbi Emel, MFTThere are times in life that shake you to your core. Your world is changed so much that you don’t recognize it or yourself anymore and doubts start to creep in that you’re ever going to recover.
That happened to me eight years ago when my partner, Ruth, died of metastatic breast cancer. Even though I knew she was going to die, even though we had talked about it and prepared for it the best we could, even though we had learned invaluable lessons during her illness, my spirit and heart were completely crushed when she took her last breath.
Shaken worldview
We all have ways that we view our worlds that are ensconced in our minds and based on our experiences. We view the world as safe or unsafe, fair or unfair, hopeful or hopeless, and so on. My world was always safe, predictable, orderly, and full of richness.Until Ruth died.
I had never lost anyone before so the experience was completely new to me. Suddenly, my long-held worldview was shaken up.
The Power of Words (By: Reehab Ramadan)
The Power of Words (By: Reehab Ramadan)
It
had been an exceptionally hard day for me, about 3 years ago.
Everything seemed to be out of place and one thing after another was
going wrong. I headed over to the University Center to get a bite to
eat—maybe food would calm my nerves. At the time, I had been wearing niqab
(the face veil), but that was the least of my worries, or so I thought.
As I stood in line to get my food, I glanced behind me and noticed a
few Muslim brothers. I was about to extend my salaam (greetings of peace) to them when I caught wind of what they were saying. They were talking about ME! ‘Why does she think she can dress that way? Who does she think she is?!’
Remember Me, I Will Remember You (By: Jinan Bastaki)
Remember Me, I Will Remember You (By: Jinan Bastaki)
How to Achieve Tranquility of the Heart
“Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured.” (Qur’an, 13:28)
In the last article in this section, we wrap up the things we have to
do in our journey to gain tranquility of the heart with the remembrance
of Allah.
When we try to figure out why we are so often bothered, why we feel
disturbed internally, or why we feel sad – we need to go back to our
hearts. The Prophet ﷺ (may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him)
said: “Do not talk too much without remembering and mentioning Allah,
for too much talk without mentioning Allah hardens the heart, and the
person farthest from Allah is the one with a hard heart.” (Tirmidhi)
Healing the Hardest of Hearts (By: Aisha Bhoori)
Healing the Hardest of Hearts (By: Aisha Bhoori)
The ambulance was shrieking, and I was the unlucky patient
being hurriedly transported to the local hospital. My body lay on a
stretcher inside the vehicle, pain shooting through my left arm.
“It looks like a massive heart attack,” I heard one of the paramedics
whisper. Not knowing the true severity of my situation, I shut my eyes,
desperately praying to Ar-Rahman (The Merciful) to have mercy on His slave.
…..
I impatiently tugged at the oxygen tubes in my nose, wondering when I
would be able to escape from this prison the public decreed was a
hospital. A cardiologist soon strolled into my room, her brown eyes
vibrant with empathy as she laid my chart down on the side counter and
turned towards me, exclaiming, “As-salaamu `alaykum Aisha.”
Take Back Your Heart (By: Yasmin Mogahed)
Take Back Your Heart (By: Yasmin Mogahed)
No one likes to fall. And few people would ever choose to drown. But in
struggling through the ocean of this life, sometimes it’s so hard not to let the
world in. Sometimes the ocean does enter us. The dunya does seep into
our hearts.
And like the water that breaks the boat, when dunya enters, it
shatters our heart. It shatters the boat. Recently, I was reminded of what
a broken boat looks like,
The Number that Never Changes...By: Omar Zarka (Source: Suhaibwebb)
The Number that Never Changes...By: Omar Zarka
It’s true though. Sometimes, after trying so hard and going out of our way to help someone, all it takes is two words—thank you—to start the rush of accomplishment and success. In fact, it happens all the time at work and school when we get a pat-on-the-back for the job-well-done on a project or a paper.
Checkpoints of Faith: Where do you Stand? By Accepted Whispers (Source: Suhaibwebb, By: Yasmin Mogahed)
Checkpoints of Faith: Where do you Stand? By Accepted Whispers (Source: Suhaibwebb, By: Yasmin Mogahed)
Collection Of Motivational Quotes by Famous Personalities Part 1
"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or objects" ~ Albert Einstein |
When you
think you can't...
revisit
a previous triumph.
- Jack Canfield
To accomplish great
things, we
must not only act,
but
also
13 Things to Remember When Life Gets Rough (By: Carol Morgan)
1. What is, is.
Buddha’s famous saying tells us: “It is your resistance to ‘what is’ that causes your suffering.” Think about that for a minute. It means that our suffering only occurs when we resist how things are. If you can change something, then take action! Change it! But if you can’t change it, then you have two choices: (1) either accept it and let go of the negativity, or (2) make yourself miserable by obsessing over it.Living with Depression and Islam (source: suhaibwebb, author: Anonymous)
Every morning I wake up and wish I hadn’t.
The months, weeks and days pass with me wishing it’ll be the last, and yet there’s no end.
At nighttime I cry faintly into my pillow with tears streaming down my cheeks. I whimper in pain, attempting to suppress the sounds that leave my room; I don’t want my family to hear.
I whisper, “Oh Allah, I don’t want to live anymore. Oh Allah, please, I don’t want to live anymore.”
I feel broken. I feel alone. I feel empty inside. I am in pain and numb at the same time. Perhaps my pain is so much now that I can no longer distinguish it. It is a physical pain—a weight on my chest crushing my existence, crushing my hopes and dreams.
I pray five times a day, I make du`a’ (supplications), I say astaghfirullah (I ask forgiveness from Allah) throughout the day and read as much Qur’an as I can. But it’s hard.
The months, weeks and days pass with me wishing it’ll be the last, and yet there’s no end.
At nighttime I cry faintly into my pillow with tears streaming down my cheeks. I whimper in pain, attempting to suppress the sounds that leave my room; I don’t want my family to hear.
I whisper, “Oh Allah, I don’t want to live anymore. Oh Allah, please, I don’t want to live anymore.”
I feel broken. I feel alone. I feel empty inside. I am in pain and numb at the same time. Perhaps my pain is so much now that I can no longer distinguish it. It is a physical pain—a weight on my chest crushing my existence, crushing my hopes and dreams.
I pray five times a day, I make du`a’ (supplications), I say astaghfirullah (I ask forgiveness from Allah) throughout the day and read as much Qur’an as I can. But it’s hard.
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